thoughts for today

Thoughts for today

Spanking is one of them, and it is a  love / hate relationship...
The trepidation

the spanking

After the spanking

Sad that end art finished, but there is a wealth of THEIR lovely art work throughout the internet

Red

special friends are awesome

Sometimes a friend is all you need

to give you advice and help you remember the advice

and if you both screw up, then you both get to share the results of the adventure, and the ensuing anguish

let the learning begin whether it be OTK

 or bare bottomed over a sofa

the result is the same whether you are over twenty somenthing

or more mature

The age old methods still work
bottoms up

Red

weight loss continued

The weight is once again slowly gong off, and today I was below 180.
However, in less than a week, we will once again be on a long transatlantic cruise, leaving from Galveston. Any readers on a cruise in less than 7 days from there?

The result was a short session with the short tawse, rather effective, then wonderful love making.

Life is wonderful.

Make certain you are enjoying it, and I hope that this wee blog helps amuse you.
And remember to FOCUS./... I thought BAXTER will like this next one ....

Red

Political correctness part two: I Dream

Some days, I just dream about how simpler life was without Political Correctness.

I can imagine the wonderful actor " Jackie Gleason" saying the following

now, the day seems to start for some people

 However, one of my top five favorite songs is : "What a wonderful world

so, one solution is to think and use the following word

and imagine this happening to them

followed by

the thought is delightful

 and will be effective

bottoms up

red

Cindy gets spanked

Sometimes, the solution is so easy for a problem.   We had a disagreement when on vacation, and Cindy seeing how upsetting her comment had been, and hurtful, that she stated I should spank her when we get home. That was a simple solution, and I acquiesced. I am the one that says once the spanking is given, the problem is solved.

Yesterday, it took some conversation for Cindy to agree to the spanking, with added rebukes about not using the wooden hairbrush. Cindy does not like being spanked, is a mild statement.

Is it consensual? A really good question, and no real answer. Cindy will accept to solve a problem, but bitterly object during the spanking.

Bare bottom, over the knee, two spanks and OWWWWWW, another two and THAT"s ENOUGH", another two and claiming that was ten so stop.

Sorry, that was only six and you are going to get 20, do you want them slow or faster?

Fast it was, with Cindy bellowing "I hate you", throughout the spanking .....

When 20 spanks were given, I kept her on my lap and stated that if she did what she had done again, it will be a longer spanking, and then permitted her to get up.

Very quickly she ran into the bathroom, yelling I hate you....

About one to two minutes later she came out, and apologized for shouting what she had, and stated I Love you.  We kissed, and then with a little prodding she stated thank you for the spanking.

We then talked for a while about things, and all is well. I guess I could categorize her reaction during the spanking to that of a child, but we do not promote, nor do I permit on this blog, any discussion of spanking children under 18, and I prefer the age to be 21.

We have hugged and kissed a few extra times in the last couple of hours, and life is wonderful. Cindy has stated again that she does not hate me!

The problem is solved, and just a word to the wise will prevent another spanking, if Cindy is thinking.

However, I quite reasonably assume that my bottom will  be in the line of fire for quite some time now and in the near future.

UPDATE the same Day: before dinner.. we have been very loving... cannot do enough for each other... and Cindy took a long , leisurely HOT bath, and we made exquisite love. PS: I checked her bottom early on, and although her skin was hot everywhere (arms, legs breasts (nice) f5rom the bath, her bottom was in no way whatsoever red. The spanking had not been very hard whatsoever, the most that was hurt was her dignity.. Magnificent orgasm for each of us...
Plus, problem solved...

Even further update: Cindy has apologized for saying that, and feels bad. My gentlemanly offer to spank her for being bad was graciously declined.
I also reminded Cindy that if she agrees that she should be spanked, she is perfectly fine in giving me HER SPANKING, but she would almost assuredly find that worse than being spanked.

bottoms up

but remember you could be spanked later....

Red

an idea for a more effective spanking

As one wonders the spanking universe of photos, you sometimes see something you had not thought of.

After a person has been spanked, maybe they should be required to do some corner time holding the implement they were spanked with...

maybe even hold it pressing against their spanked bottom

The spankee can be lectured a little more.. with the one-sided conversation pondering the idea that maybe more of a spanking is needed (the look of dismay is readily seen)

but just the knowledge that your spanked bare bottom is on display will have a salutatory  effect on the spankee

lovely colored cheeks

Frightfully, you might be instructed to remain bent over, and the tawse left resting on your bottom....
Will you be questioned about how your behavior will change, and if the spanker does not believe your answer, will it once again be used now?

bottoms up

Red

politically correct is just bullshit

Really! Many people are so easily offended!  Making fun of anything and everything is a Western Cultural habit that has been forgotten.

so, who can I offend today, as I long for

 the good old days

how about

 yikes, no aliens

 smile for the photo op!

how about we attack everyone about there pre-conceived opinions of thinking that something is wrong

bottoms up

red